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What to Say to Someone Who Has Just Lost a Pet

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What to Say to Someone Who Has Just Lost a Pet

It can be difficult to know what to say to someone facing grief. Maybe you've lost a pet an have an idea of what it's like. Maybe you've never had a pet.

Either way, there are plenty of ways to be there for someone who has just lost a pet.

One of the tricky parts is knowing what to say. You want to be strong for them, but you don't want to minimize their loss, either. If you're not sure what to say, here are a few tips to be there for your grieving loved one.

Sympathy is Crucial

Above all else, sympathy should be your guiding principle.

It's reasonable to feel uncertain about what to say, or afraid you'll say the wrong thing entirely. Genuine sympathy is always the best starting point.

Your loved one knows that you can't bring back their lost pet, so don't try to take the loss away. Something along the lines of, "Spot was such a great dog, I can't imagine what you must be going through right now," is always meaningful.

Sometimes, you don't need to say anything. Simply being there as a loving presence can help remind your loved one that you're there to support them through this, no matter what.

 

Sometimes, Listening is Enough

To that end, don't underestimate the value of listening.

Remember, your role in this situation is to offer support and kindness. If you can't think of something to say, just listen--especially if the grieving person comes to you wanting to talk.

It doesn't matter if you can't relate to what they're going through, or if you think they're overreacting. It doesn't matter if they've talked through how their pet died or how much they miss them thirty times already.

Talking through the story is a big part of processing grief, and if your loved one is coming to you to talk, the best way to help them is to listen, really listen, to the story.

Just the simple act of pausing what you're doing and hearing them out shows them that you're paying attention, that you're ready to give support when they ask for it.

 

Celebrate the Life of Their Pet

One of the best ways to show your support to your loved one is to celebrate the life of their beloved pet.

Remind them of the ways they gave their pet a great life. Break out pictures from all the walks they took for National Pet Week. Talk about how much they loved their toys or sitting outside.

You can even go one step further and get something commemorating their pet, like getting a favorite photo framed or getting a portrait done of their pet.

The important thing is to remind them that their pet lived a full and happy life and that they went above and beyond to let their pet know how much they were loved. 

 

Helping Someone Who Has Just Lost a Pet

Being there for someone who has just lost a pet is all about compassion.

You don't need to try to make it all better. You just need to show that you're there for whatever they need, whenever they need it.

Even the simplest gestures can be meaningful. The important thing is to say something.

 

Disclaimer: This post is not intended to encourage treatment or diagnosis of any animal medical condition. For medical advice, contact your veterinarian.


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